men

When will i ever understand them?! Or is the idea we never will and that's what keeps it interesting? It's just so crazy how different men and women are. And that's cool but being the woman that I am, I just can't wrap my head around the decisions some men make. I spent the day with a friend from PA who now lives out here and she recently had a rough break up. Oh how she reminds me of where I was many moons ago when my true love broke up with me. It's the worst pain and there's just nothing you can say or do but be there. So I took her shopping and fed her (i remember how people have to make me eat) and of course provided some wine. We wound up having a lovely day/night and she's a tough gal, I know she'll not only do better but she will more than survive this. But it doesn't make it any easier. And the worst part is, he gave her no good reason, it just said he wasn't sure if he was ready. Ugh.

Then there's the random guy who I dated several months ago who just appeared out of no where by texting me--i didn't even know who it was from the phone number b/c I had deleted him. So that was so random....and he's no good for me so it's best he go back to deleted status. but he was extremely hot so it's always tempting to let those ones back in. And then there's just all the men in between that you so want to believe are honest good people and you know they are deep down but they just make bad decisions, and they sugarcoat or position things however it's convenient for them and their situation. And i just have no patience for that. Just be truthful, be genuine, be who you say you are. And is it too hard to ask that you think with only one head, the one that connects to the brain?!?! That's all i ask. B/c otherwise, you're just not being fair to me (or whatever other woman you've woven into your web) and that's just not cool.

So happy monday...that's my rant for the day. that sometimes, men just suck.